Our views on sexuality are often shaped very early in life. Family environments, household values, and the social and cultural influences we are exposed to as children can shape our early understandings and relationships toward sex and sexuality. I know, because I grew up in a religious, conservative home. Sex and sexuality were considered taboo, not to be engaged in, explored, or talked about. Fortunately, maturity and personal growth brings insight.

We don’t have to embrace other people’s beliefs; our beliefs are our own. We are each unique individuals living unique lives with unique truths and experiences. Our sexuality is also unique. That path to find our authentic sexual expression is not always an easy one to walk, or even to discover. As with many adventures, an experienced guide can help find those lost or unexplored places and help assist us in our pursuit of a safe and happy experience.

As a member of the LGBTQ community and a kink identified therapist with over 15 years of study and work in sexual health, I am familiar with the thriving spectrums of Gender, Sexual, and Relationship Diversity (GSRD) and the many ways in which love can be both offered and received in relationships. If you enjoy a comfortable atmosphere and open-minded environment when discussing delicate topics of sex and intimacy, then we will be a good fit.

If you’re looking for a pleasure-positive therapist, I offer affirming care for those exploring kink, fetish, BDSM, and D/s relationships. I have experience working with people who are interested in age play and pet play, particularly littles, middles, bigs, Princesses, ABDL folks, pups, kittens, and various other dynamics. I hope to support your growth on your path toward your ideal life. Whether you’ve been meaning to be out and proud or you just want an inclusive space to engage in reflective conversation, I am here and would be honored to work with you in finding your answers.

Contact me now to schedule an initial session:
•  Call or text me at (619) 895-6023 or
•  Send an e-mail to Sandra@AffirmingTherapyCenter.com

Sandra Koellmann specializes in the following areas
Adult Baby Diaper Lovers
Alternative Lifestyles
BDSM, Fetish Exploration, & Kink Therapist
Erectile Dysfunction
Gender, Sexual, & Relationship Diversity (GSRD)
Intimacy Issues
LGBTQ-Friendly Therapy
Non-monogamy, Polyamory, & Open Relationships
Relationship Concerns
Sex Positive Therapist
Sex Therapy
Sexual Functioning
Sexual Health